It seems to me that phrases such as 'thank you' and 'you're welcome' have loss their meaning in society. Not to say that people are no longer grateful for the little things, they just take it for granted. I came to this conclusion last week while out and about with some friends.
We were sitting next to a group of people at a bar and every time the waitress brought their drinks, they didn't bother to acknowledge the job that she was doing. They continued on with their drinking and talking. It may not seem like much, but I know that if I were in the restaurant business, I would feel appreciated even if it were something as small as a 'thank you' from some drunk person you may never see again.
I make it a point to thank a waiter, waitress, or bartender. I know that it is their job to serve me, but I want to thank them for doing their job. Sometimes, their jobs look like the hardest jobs in the world. Dealing with drunk and belligerent people make their lives stressful. It may be a small gesture, saying thank you, but I like to think that it lets them know I appreciate their work and I hope that they know that.
Plus, it could lead to better service if they know I say thank you. At least that is what I'm going with.
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