Recently, a few people have told me about some friends they have that are very clingy. One wants their husband to be home the instant they are, and the other couple will ditch their friends to see each other. Listen, I'm all about spending time, and good quality time (not just time), with your spouse. But you got to let them get out of the house. Let them go out and have a poker night, or a night at the bar with their friends, or just go shopping (trying to get both sexes in there) with one of your friends. Not only are they getting out of the house, but you get alone time at the house.
Newlyweds seem to be the exception. Mainly because they are so in love and can't get enough of each other and blah blah blah. You have the rest of your lives to spend with each other, be social. Don't be the person who needs to go home because your significant other calls you and tells you to be home. Lengthen that leash people. I just don't get that about some relationships.
It isn't the end of the world if you don't spend every waking hour/minute/second with the person you love. Space people. Space.
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